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How To Use A Sex Doll?

by Dan Anderson August 25, 2020 11 min read

how to use a sex

A new journey is at hand if you have purchased a lifelike doll. To say the least, it is an excellent investment. You are in for a new experience as a silicone wife can provide you with a relationship and a gratifying sexual journey. What sets apart a TPE wife or silicone partner is that there is no question asked about your job, the car you drive, your looks, or how much cash you have in your wallet. You are always a free man. You can be the same man today as you were yesterday. It is because a European or Japanese realistic sex doll does not demand anything of you except that you explore her body and enjoy what she offers.

That said, to make the most of realistic doll ownership, there are certain things you must know. There will be little meaning in having anything if you don’t know how to use. As such, there is such a thing called a user guide to help you use a product and explore its full potential. Having a sex doll is no exception. Therefore, without further ado, given below are tips on how to use sex dolls and derive maximum pleasure and satisfaction.


unboxing and assembling


  • Once the doll in your dreams arrives on your porch with the delivery guy, neatly packaged and fresh out of the vendor’s rack, it is your cue to do the needy. Contain your excitement and carefully transport the package to a room with adequate floor space. Ample amount of space is needed as you are going to unpack and lay the doll flat on the floor beside the box.


  • In the meantime, it is imperative that you have a prior preparation on how to handle the transition of your love doll. You see, most full-size sex doll weighs anywhere from 50 to 70 pounds alongside the packaging weight. To that end, it will come handy if you can enlist a helper. The other option is to simply tip the delivery guy and get the task done.

  • Having placed the package on the floor in the room of your choice, cut the tape with a boxcutter or knife along the seams of the box in order to open her up. Doing so, you have to be cautious as you can risk cutting your new partner inside. Therefore, do not go too deep with your cutting tool.

    Cut the Box

  • Once you are done cutting the box open, waste no time in washing your hands. You are going to take out your new life-size doll from her own love shell and you cannot smudge her skin or leave a mark on her natural body. Therefore, wash your hands before you come into contact with her.

    wash hands

  • Now you can unpack the head of your realistic sex doll. You will find it wrapped in a separate bag, and resting on the upper thighs of your silicone or TPE sex doll inside the box. Gently remove and place it on the floor next to the body. You can get back to it once you have removed the body out.

    Take out head

  • Remove other accessories that come attached to the doll. Often times the accessories you will find are a closet sex doll storage system, clothing, and doll cleaning tools. Remove them and place them aside. When all this is done, the box will be left with the body of the doll and the blanket she rests on.

    sex doll accessories

  • After the above steps are carried out, you can lift the doll out of the box along with the blanket. While doing so, wrap your arms around the doll and lift her out of the box and place her gently on the floor beside it. Then connect the body of the doll with the head and put on the wig.

    Not sure how to unbox and connect the sex doll body to its removable head? Watch this unboxing video by one of our customers to learn more: 


Frankie Doll Unboxing - Sex Doll Genie from Sex Doll Genie on Vimeo.


Congratulations! You Are Done Unboxing And Ready To Use Your Sex Doll!


Now that you are done assembling your realistic sex doll, you can contemplate enjoying her. In fact, your doll or sex robot is designed for this purpose - companionship and pleasure. The key is to stick to the top tried-and-tested methods to derive maximum pleasure and excitement.


Therefore, here are some practices that can ensure a fantastic experience when using your real doll. 

How to Have Vaginal Intercourse with Your Sex Doll?

If you want to enjoy your silicone doll to the fullest, here is your answer. Generally, sex dolls come with fully functional vaginas that are designed to give pleasure. That is to say, here is your opportunity to emulate intercourse with a real woman. It works the way you imagine.

You place the doll in a position that arouses you, then you penetrate her and continue in the same way you would do with a real girl. The friction and pressure combined will be nothing short of sex with a human partner.

Enjoy Anal intercourse with Your Lifelike Doll

A good number of men fantasize about anal sex. It is nothing unusual. In fact, it is pleasurable, normal and healthy many men. However, the downside is that finding a willing partner is hard. Not many people enjoy the experience of being on the receiving end of anal sex.

But with a TPE or silicone Dutch wife in the house, you can sit back and chill. You can have many sessions of anal intercourse with your lifelike adult doll. She is designed to be super-realistic, tight and intensely gratifying. First-time it may seem weird and unworthy to make love to a doll. But we suggest you allow yourself some time to get used to the body and feel of a life-like sex doll. 

Performing Oral sex

Now, you must be mulling over the feasibility of a blowjob from a TPE or Silicone partner. The answer is yes. But you should note that blowjobs from a sex doll and a human partner are not going to be the same. It is evident that there will be a difference. There will be a variation in terms of experience.

While an oral session with a TPE or silicone sex doll may not be the same as a session with a real girl partner, you can rest assured that it will be pretty pleasurable. Also, you do not have to worry about your partner getting a gag reflex.

Other sex acts:

Explore your passion. Do not let fear and reservation grip you. Your realistic doll may be delicate, but not as delicate as you think. Life like love dolls are built to be treated like real people. You can hold your doll, hug her, caress her, or try new sex positions and get a bit rough. You can enjoy the realistic touch and love to the fullest.

Going further, your realistic doll can accommodate easily if you want to get creative and play out your fantasies. Some people have a threesome with their partners and go for the same with their sex dolls. Some love to experiment with cosplay and roleplays. Just keep in mind to refrain from extreme usage that can result in damage. However, regular sexual play is completely fine. The general rule of thumb is to go slow when in doubt and look for any signs of damage before a rough session.

Lubricants – How to Use Lube for an Enhanced Experience?

sex doll lubricants

Many users keep a lubricant at hand to heighten their experience. While doing so, it is commendable to opt for a water-based lubricant. The reason is that oil-based or silicone-based ones can cause damage to your doll, and result in a stain. Talking about water-based lubricants, KY Jelly and Astroglide are two examples.

That said, you should apply lubricant prior to penetration. In the meantime, keep in mind not to go overboard. Too much of lubrication will result in a sticky and messy penetration point. If you think you need extra lubrication, consider applying some tiny amount of warm water instead. This process can rejuvenate the dried-up lubricant and provide you with the amount of lubrication you require to continue with your session.

Keep Your Sex Doll Clean

clean your sex doll

If you want to use your real doll for an extended period of time, make it a point to maintain a clean and well-kept doll. Unlike a sex toy, dolls require regular care and loads of attention. Hence, sex with a lifelike doll feels quite real and no sex toy comes close to that feeling.

Just keep in mind that there are two essential tools to maintain the cleanliness and sanitation of your realistic doll. This first tool in question is vaginal irrigator. You can use it by filling the bulb syringe with soapy water or just plain water and insert the same into any cavity you have used. Then squeeze the bulb to flush out impurities.

The above procedure can help you clean any orifice that you have used. Cleaning is even more comfortable if you use a removable vagina instead of the fixed vagina. You can simply remove the vagina and take it to the sink or shower for cleaning. Using a condom can also simplify the cleaning aspect. However, it may not be compulsory as cleaning your sex doll requires only a few minutes.

However, if you want to reduce the efforts required to clean the sex doll, we recommend you opt for a removable vagina instead of the standard fixed vagina. You can for this when customizing your real doll. Read this SDG blog post to learn the difference between the sex doll vagina types

Furthermore, ensure your doll is clean and dry after every session. Get rid of any tight clothing or material that could stain. If you want to powder your doll before storing away, stick to a pure, cornstarch-based powder. Some doll owners also recommend using baby powder for the same. Also, it is essential to ensure the doll is dry in order to apply the powder. Not doing so will result in a pasty mess.

For those who love taking care of their dolls can check out the all-in-one sex doll cleaning kit. It may cost some extra money but really simplifies your job if you plan to own more than one full-size doll.



sex doll repair

The lifespan of your realistic doll depends on factors such as how often you use and how intense your sessions are. Sex dolls do last for a long time. But you can still push the limits of the general longevity by carrying out a timely repair. Every now and then there will be tear and abrasion. On the arms, legs, armpits, elbows, face, well, anywhere. Rip and tear are bound to happen due to friction and pressure. Noticing them and taking prompt action is the key.

In the meantime, regarding the repair kits, vendors general provide them. That is to say, they come attached to the main doll. You can also buy replacement parts from the seller. Furthermore, if you are not comfortable with doing the repair yourself, you can contact the seller and sit back.



How to Dress Your Sex Doll

Clothing will make your real doll look more attractive. It defines the kind of vibe she exudes. The right vibe can endear you to your Dutch wife, and things will get meaningful with such an equation. That said, this is the part where you can indulge in fun and fantasy. The thing with clothing is that you can act out fantasies, or do cosplays easily. You can try dressing your doll as your favourite porn star or lingerie model. You will be amazed to see the possibilities.

If you have a fantasy about spending time with a cheerleader, movie star, stripper, a police officer, or even your favourite video game character, here is your chance. You can role-play and act out your hottest fantasies. As a result, many doll owners indulge in buying clothing, make-up items and accessories in the same manner they would buy gifts for a significant person.

Talking about clothing, if your doll is of a petite figure, you will get the best deal in stores that cater to petite women. This should be easy as you can give the measurement details to the sales staff. If finding the right size turns out to be a bit difficult, you can minimize your expenditure by trying out a few inexpensive articles of clothing first. In the meantime, safety pins are also convenient. They can pin back oversized skirts and shirts, and create a beautiful silhouette. Buying lingerie for your life-size doll is fairly easier and you can find several options on local clothing stores as well as online.

Some doll owners also recommend buying used clothes for a great bargain if you don't want to spend on new clothes. Some local Facebook buy/sell groups have plenty of used dress options which are dirt cheap and won't break your bank.



love doll accessories

If you find fun in dressing up your doll, you can consider adding a few accessories. To that end, a piece of bracelet or anklet can be a beautiful item. Just make it a point to keep in mind a few things. You should refrain from using jewellery or any other accessory that are too heavy as they could stain or leave a scar on your doll.

Meanwhile, it is worthwhile to mention that you can achieve amazing results with accessories. Looks is everything. You can transform your love doll into a completely different person. Some of the must-have items are Eyelash & Lash Glue, Lip Gloss, Barrette, Powder, scarves of varying colors, lady handbag, earrings and bangles amongst others



sex doll hair and wigs

Your precious love doll will arrive at the comfort of your sweet home with a pre-attached wig. While that may be the case, you can still contemplate buying additional wigs for your Dutch wife. The crucial thing is to take care of those wigs so that they can last long.

That said, you can shampoo them in the same way people usually do with natural hair. Moreover, you can go to the extent of styling your doll’s wig and adding hair accessories as you deem suitable. Just like in real people, a new hairstyle or colour can produce amazing results, thereby giving your love doll a completely new look. That is going to be very exciting.

If that doesn't satisfy you, try opting for an extra high-quality doll head or doll wig. Brands like WM doll have plenty of doll head options you can try. Most doll purchases allow you to add an extra head. Use this option if you want to enjoy the luxury of two completely different looks for your doll without having to spend time on makeup.


perfumes and cologne

Now, here is a pro tip for using a sex doll. Incorporate the scent of a fantastic cologne or perfume – it will trigger some intense memories and account for fantastic sex. You are missing out on a great sexual experience if you do not use these fantastic olfactory elements.

In the meantime, there are specific rules to follow while using perfume or cologne. To begin with, direct the spray on the doll’s clothing rather than on the doll itself. Fragrances are generally alcohol-based and are not silicone or TPE friendly.


The Bottom Line

No matter how you use your real doll, the key is to have a pleasant experience. To that end, it will serve you well if you follow the tips suggested above. An enjoyable experience aside, if you follow the instructions so provided, your realistic doll will be in a good shape for several years down the line. Also, you will be able to enjoy using her and have a memorable experience.

Furthermore, you should bear in mind that caring for your sex doll is as natural and expected an aspect as using and enjoying. What makes caring for your real sex doll all the more mandatory is that the quality of your experience depends on the condition of your love doll. If she is in optimal condition, your session with her will be equally satisfying. At the end of the day, you will learn that using and caring to go hand in hand with each other.

Dan Anderson
Dan Anderson

Dan is a content writer with more than 7 years of experience under his belt. He started his career as a lifestyle blogger. However, he has been actively writing about sex dolls and adult toys as a Freelance Consultant for over 4 years now. His journey with SDG started with a small freelance gig and later he accepted a full-time position to support their vision. Dan is actively contributing to the Sex Doll Genie blog, doll forums, and other online communities. He absolutely loves what he does and is also very proud to be a love doll owner now!

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